Approaching the age 60 does mean at all, to take the retirement from the worldly pleasure and leading a dull and boring life depending on your kids. Waiting for them that they come back at home and entertain you. To do so you are turning your as well as your kids’ life into hell. I do not want to utter that this is intentional, but yes It is high time to apprehend that your extra involvement at your kids’ home damaging the peaceful life of your kids and I am sure you will not like it to happen even in your wildest dream. You have worked enough for others now it is your turn to lead your life which you could not because of some reason. Rather than revolving your life further around the kids give different hues into your life and try to make it more lively and full of fun. To do so, you will draw them toward you more and more close. I am mentioning below some manners which I am sure will help you to short out your problems.
Visit Beauty Parlors
Make a habit to visit the beauty parlor at regular intervals for body massage, scrubbing, cleansing pedicure, manicure, wax, facial etc. Now day beauty parlor service reaches your place also and they will charge you economically as well. There is nothing wrong to pamper yourself and spoil a little bit. using beauty services will make you feel good. you will get expert advice to take care of your skin. Massage will make you feel good and rejuvenate. And the most important thing, It will give you a feeling that you are thinking and doing something for yourself without hurting someone. Trust me your loved one will be very happy for you.
An activity which makes you happy: Pick some hobbies
It is the most significant thing that you should do. Yes, follow your heart and spend some quality of time along with it. It can be anything reading, writing, gardening, painting, playing Sudoku, jumble words, baking. You can join some hobbies class as well which you could not do because of your small kids, office, and crunch of time. Explore your horizon discover new things. Trust me it will give you more happiness and make you feel worthy to yourself. Might be your passion will become the cause for the young crowd to come closer to you and hang out.
Keep yourself update
No matter how old are you. It is extremely significant that you keep yourself up to date with all the happenings around and beyond you as much as possible. It is your awareness that will help you to be part of the crowd. Apart from being aware it is equally all-important that you become part of it. Otherwise, you will remain alone in the crowd and your grandchildren will not find you their types cool, dude etc. They will either avoid your company or will take pity on you. And you will certainly not like to meet this sort of fate with them.
This is my suggestion to everyone to do meditation every day to keep your mind young forever no matter how old are you. This is the best mental exercise to sharpen your mind and to keep you alert. It does not allow the memory to get weaken and at the same time, It helps you to uncluttered unnecessary stuff. Meditation helps you to deal with loneliness and subside your anxiety, fear and other negative emotion which put an adverse effect on our physical health as well. In addition to these, the practice of it help the person to discover oneself and recognize yourself.
It is absolutely essential that they include for sure physical exercise into their daily routine life and It can be anything like walking in the early morning in the fresh air when there is no traffic or little traffic exist or doing some yoga on the terrace or in the garden or jogging. Besides, one should try to keep oneself as busy as possible which will prohibit you to fall sick frequently and delays aging as well. It is also a great mood booster.
This is very true that each one of us has to grow old one day or another. Those people who are presently at this stage should set the example for their followers that this stage also has its own charm like previous stages and can be enjoyed rather than cribbing about disadvantages. I hope my work will prove advantageous and ideas mentioned above here will be applied.Amen.